Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, revised editionBy: Nancy Dreyfus Psy. D. No matter our attachment style, we all crave connection with our partners. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples therapy session in which a wife's unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally