When God Says No: The Mystery of Suffering and the Dynamics of Prayer by Daniel Lanahan (2001)Paperback in Very Good (VG) condition. In many situations and throughout the ages, when people have petitioned God for the relief of their suffering, or the suffering of others, God has said "No." In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus prayed that the "cup be taken from him," if it be Gods will. God answered no. Three times St. Paul begged God to remove the "thorn from his side." Three times God said no. When, says Father Lanahan, my family prayed